Banhammer hath been swung

[GM-Aki]

1. How would I go about divorcing someone who was perma-banned?

Use the ticket system to ask for a divorce. Name the chars involved and we can discuss it from there.

2. Would it be possible to have banned accounts of mine deleted so I could a) stop putting them in and remembering that, hey they're banzor'd moron and b) so I could use those logins and char names again?

We don't delete accounts... ever. So no, the accounts stay there just perma-banned.

a) You'll have to break the habit or continue with the remembering.
b) The login's are unique, you could use something close though it wouldn't help with the a). As for the char names, adding something or substituting could work to keep a like name.

Good luck with a) ^_^