i'd say, drop the expectations you get/had from being in a guild and just try to have fun. Being in a guild doesnt mean people should give you stuff or should help you lvl etc, ofc every guild is different and i don't know you and how you ask for help but i can say you pacience is the key to alot of things :3
Also its just like Aaronock said already, you have to gain people their trust. I don't think any guild will welcome their newbies with; "heey welcome in the guild! here is a +10 valk shield and 10 mil zeny ;D" (atleast i havn;t met a guild like that before x'D)
this is not meant as a flame or anything, hope you get that :3
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