Ok, lets end this once and for all.
1.)Get a bag of jelly belly all sorts, pick out one of each color and put it in a bag, give it to pandy so she can pick a color out while wearing a blindfold.
2.)whichever color is picked, that will be the color of the whatever it is you are debating over. and it is to stay.
3.)now eat the jelly bean and start again.
let the jelly beans solve our problems, just hope no one pull out tutti fruitti.