So after days on end complaining about heRO lag + torrent speed sucking, I took some serious time to research about the subject a bit. I got my torrents working so I have things to download that I really need to catch up on, but the heRO lag isn't going away. I made sure that my heRO port are opened for both UDP and TCP so I really don't see why every single port checking device is saying that the port is closed for UDP.
Researching much more techno-jumbo than I prefer, I finally found out that it seems my current (old) router has a famous reputation for inconsistent performance in actually managing the UDP ports.
And so Ayu won't be ingame due to death lag (I'll still be online to chat since lag doesn't affect it much, or if emergency calls me) so until I get a new router, I won't be on my legits or be ingame much. I'm still on forum and answering support tickets as just surfing the web (and downloading) have no problems at all. Just every single sense of online gaming died